Confident, beautiful, and on her sh*t.
There isn’t another way to describe the woman who’s about her business. Dating an ambitious woman should be your goal, fellas. Sure, I’ll go ahead and say it… she might seem intimidating at first, but she’s just serious about where she’s going in life. There are many benefits to dating a woman of this stature, but I’ll point out a few to get you started. Here’s what it’s really like to date an ambitious woman.
She has her sh*t together, so save the bull for someone else.
An ambitious woman is a woman who pays attention to what’s happening around her. You aren’t going to pull the wool over her eyes. She takes herself seriously and won’t allow anyone to waste her time. Nine times out of ten, she’s already skeptical about investing time in another new relationship as it is. Don’t let this discourage you. Just shoot with aim.
Her time is valuable, and she’s tired of wasting it on men with nothing to offer but sex and games.
When you date a woman who is about her business, you should value her time just as much as she does. If you’re still about games, an ambitious woman is not the woman you need in your life. She’ll end up leaving you in the dust.
She wants to be in control, but if you’re a strong man, she’ll release the reins a bit.
An ambitious woman naturally takes control. She can’t help it; it’s who she is. While she may be used to controlling the situations around her, this woman will let you take the lead if you show her you can. You have to make her see that you can handle leading her, though.
If you’re intimidated by her presence alone, she won’t trust that you are strong enough to lead her. If you can show her that you respect that she is a strong, independent woman, BUT you’re the man and are capable of taking the lead—trust me, she won’t fight you about it. An ambitious woman likes a man to be able to put his foot down without stepping on her.
She’s on her P’s and Q’s, so she’ll expect you to be the same way.
When you approach her, you have to come correct. You want to have something to offer. An ambitious woman isn’t perfect, but she’s striving to be. She wants you to be a reflection of her and vice versa. She wants you to be confident, charismatic, and all the other things she knows she brings to the table.
She has a serious work ethic, but knows how to let her hair down.
All work and no play isn’t good for anyone. Yes, an ambitious woman works hard, but she plays even harder. She won’t allow a good time to jeopardize her quality of work or her ability to get it done, but when all the work is done, she is down to have a good time. This is a good thing. A woman who is about her business is the best of both worlds. She’s serious about what matters, but she’s also an adventurous risk-taker—even in bed.
She wants you to work for her, but she’s worth it.
An ambitious woman may be strong and independent, but she’s still a woman. She needs affection. She wants to experience romance. She wants to feel needed. She will challenge you to see if you can deliver on those things, but here’s the catch—without making her feel weak. Her initial reactions may be misleading because she doesn’t want to seem too soft, but trust me, she wants to be treated like a princess. So, she’ll make you chase her, but she’s worth it. I promise.
Once you prove yourself, she really could be yours forever.
As mentioned, an ambitious woman values her time. It’s one of her most valuable assets. That being said, once she realizes that you haven’t wasted her time and you can handle being her counterpart, she will respect everything that you two have built and will build. She’s loyal.
She won’t let anyone or anything come between what she’s now investing her heart and time into. She won’t give up on you guys easily. She’ll always want to solve whatever problems you two come up against. That also means that if you break her heart, you had better be ready to experience hell, buddy. Hell hath no fury like an [ambitious] woman scorned.
Are you man enough to handle her? Sure you are! Now, get out there and make someone happy!
