I know many people might think that means you’ll last forever, but it doesn’t.
Dating someone who won’t ever change their mind about you means that even if things don’t work out, they won’t forget or regret you. There are only about three people on this earth created specifically for us, and we’re going to have to date around for a while before we find them. Still, it should be a personal goal to be unapologetically unforgettable to anyone you’ve chosen to give your heart, time, or energy to.
When someone mentions that the two of you used to be together, you don’t want it to be a sour experience for either of you. Sure, I could have talked about being with the person who won’t ever change their mind about you because you’ll be together forever, but for most of us, we aren’t there yet. So, here’s how to date someone who isn’t going to change their mind about you. Let’s get into it!
Be passionate, but not crazy.
There is a fine line between ‘you make me so happy I want to shout it all over the world’ and ‘you’re my person and nobody else’s… I’ll kill you if you leave me.’ I’m not afraid to say that I’ve had to learn not to lay it on so thick. It sounds crazy, but some of us really do love that hard. Once you get a handle on passion versus crazy, you’ll be able to love them fully, but to the point where they are still comfortable. Love can be threatening, don’t forget that. Love gently. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t desire that kind of love.
Make them laugh from the gut.
Be friends. Be close friends, so if things don’t work out, you’re still unforgettable because you’re friends. There’s more under the surface of the relationship to be sustained. They won’t be as willing to throw you away when there is more to lose than being boyfriend and girlfriend. Be the kind of friend who makes them laugh their ugly laugh (we all have one).
Create new experiences with them.
Another easy way to be unforgettable is to create new experiences with someone. Share as many first-time experiences as you can with them. Share new experiences that are so special you won’t be able to forget about them when you try it again—even if it’s with someone else. Create the kind of memory that brings the sweetest smile back to your face every time you think about it.
Sex game crazy.
Last, but certainly not least… make love to them. F*ck your way right into their heart. Let it be as beautiful an experience as you can create. Share your body with them in ways you haven’t with others. When you have sex with them, connect with them. Let it be a language that only the two of you can speak. Try new tricks or perfect the old ones; either way… be unforgettable. Make magical love.
Make them see that they’ll never find another you. Ever.
